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self-love

American  
[self-luhv] / ˈsɛlfˈlʌv /

noun

  1. the instinct by which one's actions are directed to the promotion of one's own welfare or well-being, especially an excessive regard for one's own advantage.

  2. conceit; vanity.

  3. narcissism.


self-love British  

noun

  1. the instinct or tendency to seek one's own well-being or to further one's own interest

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

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Origin of self-love

First recorded in 1555–65

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It was survival, self-love and something close to church.

From Salon Jul. 20, 2026

The diet culture of the ’90s was never totally vanquished, and Ozempic has complicated narratives about body size, health, and self-love, to put it mildly.

From Slate Mar. 31, 2026

In 2014, Rivera-Amador and Hollinquest founded the Radical Monarchs in Oakland — giving girls and gender expansive youth of color ages 8 through 13 a safe space to practice self-love, sisterhood and activism.

From Los Angeles Times Mar. 27, 2026

The self-love script took hold in part because it offered a comforting narrative.

From The Wall Street Journal Jan. 2, 2026

I’d been way off course, theorizing jealous secrets, when Sela’s actual truth was another thing I’d always sucked at: self-love.

From "Legendary Frybread Drive-In" by Cynthia Leitich Smith

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